When it comes to online dating, you can only really go on looks to start with, and that may be a problem. If you look for a pretty woman, you are going to find one. The problem is that there are so many individuals who post pictures of another person, or they use the one photo of themselves that accidentally makes them look pretty. Even if the photo you look at of a pretty woman is indeed a correct photo of who the individual is, how do you know what they are really like?

A profile doesn’t tell you much. You must go by looks, but don’t ignore the ones you may think aren’t exactly your idea of a pretty woman. The ones you notice that you think are ‘ok’ may end up being gorgeous to you as soon as you get to know them. You must open up communication to start getting to know someone, and then you can decide if you have met a pretty woman or not. You may find that your dream girl is vindictive, manipulative, or that her best quality is the ability to bore you to death. If you are really looking for a relationship, that sort of woman is not going to work, no matter how pretty she might be.

The same can work in reverse. A guy starts to be more attractive to a woman through his personality, and can become unattractive if he is arrogant, brash, mean, bossy, or just simply a jerk. A pretty man or a pretty woman is not something you can tell when you first see someone. It is really something that comes from within. A pretty woman has a natural beauty, which is improved by what comes from inside of her heart. Beauty doesn’t guarantee you will connect and only gets you so far. Some fantasies are better left unfulfilled.

I don’t know about you but how many times has a friend told you that a woman is totally into you but you don’t even realize it or it had never crossed your mind before? What if you could pick up on those subtle hints that women give unconsciously and take advantage of them?

Some of the most common indicators that a women gives when she is attracted is she will:

. Play with her hair

. Fidgets with a glass or jewelry

. Look away when you look into her eyes

. Biting of her lip . Her legs point straight to you

. She turns into you with her body language

. She leans inwards

. Tosses her hair

And then each woman has a unique signal of their own to convey they are interested in you and this is one that you need to look for and pay attention too. Some woman will grab your hair, some will pull the back of your hair.

If a woman plays with your hair or pulls your hair, plays with your ears, or touches you in a certain way you can almost guarantee that she wants to be touched in the same way in the same way. The importance of the subtle cues are critical because you could be standing there communicating not seeing these cues and not know when to take the next step with the woman.

They say that a woman knows if she is attracted to you if she gets jealous when she see’s you with another woman. Now I am not saying go talk to another woman and then look at her to see if she is looking because that is seeking approval and that my friend will get you into trouble. Normally when you come back if the woman starts asking questions of who the woman was and what you were doing it is a sure signal that she is interested in you.

If the woman is with one of her female friends and they are both looking at you and she is smiling is a dead giveaway that she is interested in you. She is letting her friend know that she is interested in you and her friend is giving her approval on what she thinks and majority of women do this. Also she will try find out as much information about you so she when she goes back to her friend she can dump all the information and wait for approval.

If a woman conveys that she is interested in the same qualities and hobbies as you and keeps agreeing with you is another signal. If a woman is interested in you she will make herself sound available so she will convey to you that she is not busy on specific days and some will just convey that they are not busy at all.

If you are able to inspire a woman and make her look up to you and her body language will be a dead giveaway she is interested. All of these signals you need to look out for because if you don’t you will miss out on your opportunity to take it to the next level.

We would also suggest that it’s okay to analyse your past relationship(s). Think about what you liked and didn’t like, and then don’t change your mind! If you didn’t like it when your last partner smoked in the house or swore constantly, don’t accept it from someone else hoping that their other qualities will overcome these minor issues.

One of the most important things you can do while searching for online companionship is to ask questions. Gently, carefully and respectfully ask about their past, their likes and dislikes, what they want from a relationship, etc. Take your time. It’s easy to get caught up in the whirlwind of romance. As well, ask to see photos of the person in their day-to-day activities. I’m not saying that looks are the most important thing, but the reality is that you want to make sure that all of the flames are lit, and that you won’t be surprised when you meet them in person, except in a positive way!

I remember meeting a guy once – travelled 4 hours by train. When I saw him at the train station I was horrified! He may have been 6′1″ as he stated, before he shrunk! When I looked down all I could see were these huge earlobes. Now I know that sounds superficial, but my eyes must have been saucers! Not very mature of me, but in reality it was his attitude that turned me off. The earlobes I could have accepted, over time! I’m sure that there was someone just for him.

Everyone looks different to everyone else. It doesn’t mean that we’re all beautiful to everyone. Chemistry is very important, so make sure that you have it before you meet, or at least a foundation to build on. It’s also important that you both want the same things. You don’t want to spend your life trying to convince someone that getting married or having kids, if that’s what you want, would be right for them. You will just get bitter over time. If you’re honest from the start, than you’re sure to have a more positive and fruitful online dating experience. Last but not least, when you’ve met someone and you start a relationship, cancel your membership. Having a backup plan isn’t fair to your new partner. After all, you met her/him online so you know what can happen, and so do they!

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You must be patient. Don’t press her for personal information like her real name or where she lives. Keep your conversations light and fun until she feels comfortable talking with you online. Don’t try to rush her into meeting face-to-face. She will think you are desperate or a pervert. Patience. Patience. Patience.  

Be absolutely honest about your physical appearance and job. A good relationship has never been, and will never be, built on lies and deceit. Eventually she will find out the truth anyway and there you are back at square one. 

A picture really is worth a thousand words. Post many pictures of yourself doing your everyday activities and make them full body shots, not just head shots. If you were dating a girl in the real world she wouldn’t just see your head.  

Once the discussion has been opened about meeting face-to-face for the first time, suggest that you meet in a very public place, during daylight hours  and that she bring a friend with her. After all, you have nothing to hide. You’ve told her the truth about yourself and she has already seen a lot of pictures of you. The only thing left is to make her feel safe meeting you.

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