The Kept Man Vs. the Kept Woman

A kept woman vs. The kept man:

They say that a kept woman is a woman who’ll do every and anything her man wants her to do as far as cooking and cleaning and not having any say so and opinions of her own without her man’s approval and a kept man is basically the man who has no choice but to listen to what his woman says because all she does is buy the man’s affections with her wallet and being insecure because of the way she looks because there is fear that the man might leave her. Now, some women tend to buy their man with their affections normally pay like they weigh which is just not cool at all because of the fact that, the man doesn’t return the same love and they have it in the back of their mind is that if they don’t stop buying his affections, they fear that he will leave, so they do things like move in his apartment and taking over and making the man miserable because of her own insecurities that has, fearing that she’s not the most beautiful thing in this world. Those types of women are usually what you call damaged goods!

They say a kept man is a good man no doubt about that. He takes care of home, but also looks elsewhere even though he has a family. He strays because he’s looking for more excitement outside his relationship because the woman is too kept, but doesn’t really satisfy him sexually, and it’s not really as exciting anymore, with the kept man, he loves the drama even though he loves his family. He loves to be spoiled and spanked. whereas, the wife is too kept to a point where the man thinks in his mind that she has no backbone. But although, some men don’t like to be considered a kept man whereas the one’s who are kept, who does anything his woman asks if he could and when that opens up to an understanding of her feelings, respect, or an all around good guy!

The basic facts: The ways you could tell that a woman is a kept woman:

-Basic inability to make her own decisions.

-Willingness to go through any lengths to keep please her man because she has nothing else to bring to the table except for her subservitude (meaning: to be inservice at a low level ex: whatever he says, goes!)

-Broken spirited, needy, or unintelligent.

Know this:

Not all kept women are damaged goods. It’s just an insecurity issue with them.

The ways you could tell that a man is a kept man:

-They’re usually without a woman that you wouldn’t generally see them with, but he’s with her because she pays like she weighs or lives a certain lifestyle that she can provide which makes them slaves to the ones they love or think they love.

-Generally in love relationships whereas the kept man vs. the kept woman: the rules are made by the one’s who care less.

-Dictates the momentum of the rules of the relationship (cares less,loves less)

Some women that are kept women when in relationships normally say oh, that’s my man and I’ll do anything for him because he’s my man and I’ll do anything for him because he’s the man and I love him to death, but if you think about it, is it really love, or just a figment of their own iagination into what they feel how their man should rellay be when they are with them. Again, those types of women aren’t usually seen in public with the man, they’re usually stuck at home cooking the man’s meals and cleaning the house while the man is out doing dirt. But if you look at it, some women sign up for this type of lifestyle that they live because in all actuality, they know what they’re getting involved in fearing they’ll end up alone and end up blaming themselves in the end.

From one man’s point of view about the kept woman:

The problem is that in the long run it might break apart and it’s not who you love. It’s just that some women will do anything to keep their man including going the distance as to be-little themselves.

From another man’s point of view:

A kept woman is a woman who keeps her man, get his house cleaned and in relationships, does her duties, no matter what!

The insight: Some women need to open their eyes and see what the man’s capabilities are and how to read one’s body language when plotting on making a woman a kept woman.

A kept woman vs. The kept man:

People: Will we be able to see past the truth of being a kept woman as opposed to being a kept man!

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